Moving On.

Moving on always seems like one of the hardest things in life. Sometimes we just couldn't get rid of a certain incident or maybe 'someone' from our mind. Being cliche, talking about how to move on from a breakup event. But, do you guys know that by saying move on, it's not only referring to a relationship. Well, it is also regarding the life and mental events. Move on, in my own words... means that we are letting go of the past. It is a tragic breaking-up moment, an embarrassing moment or maybe something we regret the most. Move on from it, means we are accepting the variety of past events that we wish to never happen. 

So, how exactly it is to move on?

I discovered something when I reflect on myself as I keep on blaming myself for all the stupid things that I've done in the past. I found out that, the exact way to move one is not by running away from the thoughts and the memories. You just need to face it bravely even though at first you might find it hard to bear all the thoughts as they bombard your mind like a broken slideshow. But, trust me... As time flies, you will ignore the thoughts with a burst of laughter. The other key is to accept what has happened. Everything, everything happened for a reason, including the breakups, the shameful moments the grief and the madness. If you break up with your loved ones, it might mean that you and the person are meant to be someone better. And, if you faced a totally shitty breakup that you almost thought of taking your ex's head off... Well, just think that you won't find someone like that again in the future and guess what.. You could become a better version of yourself too. 

And if you are embarrassed by the shameful memories that you faced in the past, just let out a heavy deep sigh and laugh it off. Well, things happened. Who on earth is having a really perfect life, right?

So, just face it all and accept it. Running away won't solve it.
It will haunt you until maybe it enters your dream. So, it is better to just shrug it off, right?
Time will heal everything and as we grow older... We won't care about it anymore. Why live in the past when you have the future to prove yourself that you are a GREAT person. Am I wrong? Haha. Past is past... Sometimes we gotta learn to let it all go and live our life to the fullest.
 Don't ever let the past engulf you and keep you away from the light of happiness. Cherish the present and the future. Look at the past to learn from it and become a better somebody.

 Somebody that you can be proud of in the future.

"Looking back to the past is like turning your head only to see that a blade is right behind your back"

-ddy